Melbourne Musings: Not Everything's a Fairytale (But It's Still Home)
After three years of living and studying in Melbourne, Australia, I've come to appreciate its beauty, modernity, and vibrancy. It's undeniably a great place to be. However, like anywhere, there are a few things that... well, aren't my favorite. This is just based on my personal experience.
The Quirks of Melbourne Living
Public Transport on Weekends: Basically Non-Existent
Weekend trips can sometimes feel more challenging than weekday commutes. Buses are less frequent, trains are constantly delayed – I've waited 25 minutes for a train, only to have it cancelled. Uber is expensive, leaving you with no option but to close the app. This means you have to meticulously plan your weekends, or you're stuck close to home.
Weather: A Four-Seasons-in-One-Day Rollercoaster
The weather is notoriously unpredictable. You might start the day at 12 degrees Celsius, then suddenly jump to 29 degrees by noon, followed by strong winds in the afternoon and heavy rain in the evening. Dressing appropriately is a constant challenge. New arrivals often experience colds, coughs, or allergies as they adjust to this extreme variation.
Tip: Always carry a light jacket and umbrella, no matter the season!
"How Are You?" Greetings: The Superficial Small Talk
Initially, I thought "How are you?" was an invitation for a conversation. However, after replying, the person would often just... walk away. Australians are generally friendly and polite, but they may not always be interested in deep conversations. As someone who enjoys more profound interactions, this was a bit disappointing at first. Over time, I've learned to adapt and identify the right people to connect with.
Beautiful Beaches: More for Gazing Than Swimming
The beaches in Australia are stunning – crystal-clear water, soft sand, and a generally relaxing atmosphere. However, the water is cold year-round, the winds are strong, and there are shark warnings. Many times, "no swimming" signs are posted due to strong currents. Often, I'm content with just walking along the beach, watching the sunset, and taking pictures, rather than actually swimming.
Perspective is Key
Australia isn't perfect, but it's not terrible either. Every place has its pros and cons. The key is to adapt and find joy in the imperfections.
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